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10 Proven Tips for a Happy Marriage

Publish On 2015-02-03 , 2:40 PM

a happy marriage

These happy marriage tips have been proven to work in a wide variety of relationships and I wanted to share them with you. Hopefully they will contribute value to your efforts to build a lasting and happy marriage.

10 Tips to help build a strong and happy marriage

1. Build trust into your marriage.

- It takes effort to built a happy marriage succeed. So, be determined not to flirt or get too close with members of the opposite sex. If you do, in the back of your mind, you could begin to view someone else as an alternatives when your marriage goes through a rough patch. Having an alternative will weaken your resolve to make your marriage work. Trust is the foundation of a happy marriage and it’s something you need to work at.

2. Show respect by paying  attention.

Listen to your spouse when he or she talks to you. Mutual respect is vital for a happy marriage. When you give your mate your undivided attention it shows that you respect them and value what they have to say. If your spouse talks to you when you’re in the middle of something important, explain that you want to hear what they have to say and suggest a time when you’ll be able to pay better attention.

3. Do fun things together.

Find thing that you enjoy doing together and then make time to do them. Exercise together, go on walks, or take on mutually enjoyable projects together. It doesn’t matter what it is, as long as you both have fun doing it. Spending time together enjoying each other’s company will strengthen your happy marriage and add another meaningful dimension to your relationship.

4. Learn from your experiences.

Figure out when to do, or not do, certain things. For example, if you find that you tend to be tense and cranky when you’re hungry, minimize your conversation with your spouse during those times. Similarly, if you see that your spouse gets worked up whenever you mention the name of a certain person, don’t mention that person’s name unless absolutely necessary. Build a happy marriage by being smart enough to learn from the past.

5. Be polite to your mate.

When speaking with with your partner, use phrases like please and thank you. Being polite should not be viewed as a formality. It is a way that we honor our mate and it helps them to feel appreciated and respected. Being courteous is like the oil that helps a happy marriage run smoothly and reduces unnecessary friction. If you can be polite to a stranger, then it should be even more important to be polite to your marriage mate.

6. Never say “I told you so.” Strike the phrase “I told you so” from your vocabulary.  They already know that you told them so, why rub it in? Saying so only creates ill will between you and your spouse. We all mess up from time to time. And when we do having it rubbed in our face doesn’t help. A little support and encouragement will do a lot more toward building a happy marriage than taking a shot at your partner when they are already feeling bad.

7. Don’t Keep Score.

Marriage is not a contest so don’t walk around with a watchful eye making sure your partner carries there share of the load. Instead, take the view that it doesn’t matter if you end up doing more than half of what needs to be done. Trying to make your relationship fifty-fifty proposition will cause a lot of unnecessary tension and you don’t need that. So unless your spouse is a total slacker,  recognize that in a happy marriage both partners try to help their mate carry the load.

8. Don’t sweat the small stuff.

A family court judge once commented that in 99 percent of the divorce cases he presided over, the couples were upset over very trivial things. Wouldn’t it be ironic if a marriage was strong enough to stand up to all the big challenges, but couldn’t get past the minor irritations of daily life? Here’s a secret from my own happy marriage. Learn to view your partners little idiosyncrasies as entertaining rather than irritating. It works, so don’t sweat the small stuff.

9. Greet your partner with a smile.

We all want to know that our mate is happy to see us. Well, when they greet us with a smile it reassures us of that, and our smile does the same for them. A smile can do so much and requires so little effort. It has the power to lift someone’s spirits and it sets the stage for a pleasant reunion after a long and perhaps difficult day. If you want a happy marriage, lead with your smile and let that be the first impression you make when you greet your mate.

10. Respect your spouse’s privacy.

Don’t go through your partner’s things out of curiosity or in an effort to check up on them. We all want our privacy to be respected and when someone violates that it feels offensive. Don’t let a sense of insecurity cause you to become overly suspicious of your your mate. On the other hand, being secretive can create suspicion. A happy marriage should be built on open and honest communication. So, if there is something you need to know, ask, don’t snoop.

Source: http://advancedlifeskills.com/blog/10-tips-for-a-happy-marriage/



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Tagaytay Wedding Stewards

Publish On 2015-02-05 , 3:20 PM

TAGAYTAY WEDDING STEWARDS

 

It is really hard to manage a perfect wedding—even a long preparation will never assure its certainty. That is why important occasions such as this should always be regarded and invested. For couples, they should make sure that their wedding will be thoroughly prepared.

 

 

That’s why The Wedding Store gives you the most approachable professionals—Tagaytay Wedding Stewards. With thorough knowledge and training in giving the best wedding ideas and packages, stewards would help you achieve the wedding you’ve been dreaming.

As the only entitled Wedding Stewards, we offer committed assistance for every concern your dream wedding has. With years of experience there is much that we can give —we don’t let our clients wander but help them get through the most crucial decisions they face in achieving their dream wedding by showing them different packages available.

Let us know the journey of the stewards in helping past couples:

Ms. Maria Lourdes Hernando, one of the wedding stewards told that to establish good relationship with their clients is a must in order to know personally the ideas they wanted for their wedding. Time is never wasted in dealing with us, but we do not also rush in attaining good and ideal wedding the couples wanted.

Another steward, Ms. Cristal Gail Manalo added that as stewards, we don’t oversell. We are honest with what we offer and give just packages. And the best thing about dealing with us is that we recommend different local suppliers that fit the budget and the idea of the clients. We are not just concerned of what we have, but we also have concern with what you want.

"Priority ", that’s how Ms. Camille dela Cruz, another steward described her treatment to her clients. She said that when she's with her clients, she feels the pressure, as if she's the bride.

We have gone beyond work and just glad to satisfy our clients the best possible way. With positivity and friendly approach, we were able to gain friends through this work. Most customers go back to us and express their appreciation with our hard work.

And the years of countless effort helped us gain credibility and trust from our beloved patrons. Ms. Gina Malapajo, with 4 years of experience in being a wedding steward said that she learned how to ride on with the clients and handles stress at the same time. We want personal connection that is why we get our clients' ideas first, and then we go step by step process till we get there.

Other stewards are Ms. Fe Cabug-os, Mr. VergelCordovin and Mr. Claren David Canuel. They all have the best offering for you.

Being a steward doesn't just have a commitment but a friend that gives the best way and ideas to have the best celebration of your love.

From the wedding venue to the packages that will suit your budget and style—we will handle it as you want them to. Stewards long to ease your relentless preparation.

We know the right venue for the kind of motif you want—from the highlands of Tagaytay, the scenic view of Taal Lake to the different pavilions in the area. We won’t compromise the things that you want. Considering the distance from the church to the reception, the kind of weather in your wedding day. We will take care of it.

Your concern is our concern as well—so you should no longer worry about your wedding because our aim is to achieve the wedding you want. 

 



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Rustic Wedding Theme at Angelfields Nature Sanctuary

Publish On 2015-02-11 , 3:25 PM

Rustic Wedding Theme at Angelfields Nature Sanctuary 

Known for its rustic country ambience many couples book their weddings at Angelfields Nature Sanctuary. Located in Silang, Cavite, you can really feel an elegant rural setting. Mixed with the cold breeze of the place there is really romantic touch of nature. Your guests would surely love your wedding event.

You will be on trend with this eco-friendly rustic wedding theme this 2015. With nude cake, hanging decors, woody chic and glamorous green pieces around the reception, surely you will achieve your dream wedding. Brides can also use floral hair dress instead of the usual wedding crowns to complete the feel of nature. And instead of the using the usual strong colors as your wedding motif, why not combine different pastel colors to complement the place. It would be as magical as fairytales.

Make the most out of nature and choose to have a Rustic wedding theme. Your guests will be in awe as they witness a very romantic day of your love. Make your secondary sponsors like dancing fairies around and your set-up completely dreamlike. 

Angelfields Nature Sanctuary gives the perfect atmosphere of romance with rustic country theme. With its flexible garden area, you may transform with different fantastic setting. That’s why before tying the knot this year consider a good theme with this sanctuary of love. Partner this with the best and well-trusted food and wedding service provider—Town’s Delight The Caterer. They can give the perfect wedding set-up you wanted to achieve. They will also have the best match of food menus to complete the satisfaction of guests in attending your wedding. What could be better than having these two partnering companies in giving you the best way to celebrate your special day?

Never get outdated with the trend in your wedding. Book a reservation and deal with us. Wedding will only happen once, make it remarkable.



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Narra Hill

Publish On 2015-02-16 , 1:43 PM

Rustic and Nature! Set in lush gardens and overlooking Taal Lake, Narra Hill Tagaytay is one of the remarkable place you may want to consider for your wedding ceremony and reception.

Narra Hill is a beautifully designed events venue in Tagaytay. Set in lush gardens and overlooking Taal Lake, the venue is one of the most remarkable place you may want to consider for your wedding reception. Nestled in the midst of forest with the scenic view of Taal Lake and Taal Volcanoe infront of it made this venue truly romantic.


Inquire Now!

 



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Tips for Choosing a Venue

Publish On 2015-02-23 , 4:23 PM

TIPS FOR CHOOSING A VENUE

With a lot of venue offering when it comes to weddings, how can you consider if it is good for your own occasion? What are the different considerations to put to mind when choosing your venue? That’s why aside from the other details, let us take a look at the list on how to get a great wedding venue:

 

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1.    First, Think Of Your Guest Accommodation

When deciding for the venue, consider first how many guests you will be accommodating. By this, your wedding will just look fit into the venue—not too small and not too big. You will have just enough space to make your guests comfortable.

2.    Consider If It Will Blend To Your Theme

If you choose your venue, make sure it matches your wedding theme. It helps in achieving the feel that you want if the area itself blends in your theme. If your motif is vintage then choose a venue which gives the same aura, if it is rustic or nature, choose locations with the same ambience. It would be easier for you than doing extravagant set-up on the event’s place.

3.    Parking Areas

Always put to mind the convenience of all especially when parking their cars. Choose a venue that has wide and enough parking space for your guests. This dilemma always set the mood of the guests before attending your wedding. So better get a venue that has huge parking space.

4.    Different Areas To Eat, Drink And Party

Check your venue if it offers variants of area suit for the kind of wedding you has. If your guests are fond of partying, then let them have area to party. If your guests are there to dine and chat with each other, then have them a place perfect for what they want—celebrating your wedding in a quiet way. And also for the drinkers, have them a space to drink and be loud. With this, everyone will enjoy your wedding for they know how comfortable your venue is. Check that your venue will not have problems to the neighboring houses to avoid any complications.

5.    Locate Important Details 

Have a tour on the place and look for important details. Visualize the area with how your wedding will look like. From the buffet area to the music corner and other concerns, make sure there are enough space, plugs and ways to go and come from. Think of how the catering provider come and go from the buffet area to their storage location.

6.    Proper Ventilation

Your wedding will also be filled with nice dresses and tuxedos. That is why it is important to give your guests proper ventilation. If you are having an indoor activity, air-conditioned venues should be considered. You would not want to look a corpse and even your guests would curse you because of the bad ventilation in your venue. 

7.    Consider Other Options

Don’t settle for just one choice of venue, visit different venues great for wedding events and compare. Think how you will benefit from one to another. Consider also the price differences and choose what would be a wise decision.

In choosing your venue, always bear in mind your guests and the food served. You will be celebrating your most special day and it would be a part of your journey forever, so make wise decisions and enjoy the rest of your preparations. 



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